You know how painful the experience can be if you are going through a break up. It is alleged that this might be among the most painful things to have to deal with. Though hard to believe, it is thought that a divorce can be more painful emotionally than a death in the family.
It does not matter if you have initiated this break up, you will still suffer the emotional pain. The individual that got dumped will be the worst off for it. Fortunately, we pull through it, as difficult as it may be.
It can take some time to get through it but it will happen. You need to give yourself a short period of grieving, then you need to get your life back together. Have you been considering if you want to get your ex back? If the answer is yes, then you should not contact them at all begging for them to come back to you.
Give them, and yourself a minimum of one month to get your lives back together. If your ex broke up with you, then for sure they don't want to hear from you just now. Time heals so let time do it's job.
Don't stay home on your own feeling sad, that is going to make it worse for you. Get out of the house with your family and friends and have fun. You should do whatever you can to get your mind off your ex.
When the time is right to speak with your ex, just give a quick call to say hi, just say you hope they are doing okay and don't hang on too long. Say you must go and say bye. You may get a feel for your chances of getting them back from this first call. Give them a while longer and call again.
Friday, April 30, 2010
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