You've got to understand how to approach women if you're going to expand your social possibilities. Most men, however, have no idea what to say to a random woman -- so they fail to do something, and miss out on possibilities to meet women every day.
If only they'd understood how to approach women, those guys could have easily scored a phone number or a date in that situation.
My seduction manual Mack Tactics contains many different techniques for approaching women, but for now I'll give you a few quick ways to approach women that will help you start learning this.
How To Approach Women Technique #1, "Facebook Friends": Here's a good way to approach women at bars. Smile and say to them, "Hey, I saw you on Facebook, I think we have a friend in common." This one is a gem because nowadays virtually every woman on the planet has a Facebook account, and it's entirely plausible that you do have a mutual friend.
Don't spend time talking to her about which Facebook friends you might possibly have in common. You've already Opened her; now transition to another topic so that you can build a connection with her.
Approach Women Tactic #2, "Phone Flirting": If she's using her cell phone, wait until she finishes her call or her text and then use this Opener: "Hi, what kind of phone is that? I need to buy a phone for a friend of mine, for her birthday, and I think that's the one she wants."
The girl will tell you the model of her phone, and then you say, "Can I take a picture with it real quick? I'd like to see how good the camera is." Have her show you how to take a picture...then use her phone to take a picture of her. Be playful -- have her do a "model" pose. Once you take the picture, she's naturally going to come in close to you so that she can see the result. (That's a funny thing about girls; they're crazy about taking pictures, especially of themselves, and they can't resist immediately checking how the photo came out.)
Then you can show her your own phone. If yours is a lot less fancy than hers, you can mention that you need to buy a new phone, and ask her advice. On the other hand, if you've got a cool phone, you're demonstrating to her that you stay up on the cool and trendy new devices. That's a good thing. And even better, since both of you are now holding your phones, it becomes very easy to do the "phone number exchange" that I explain how to do in the Mack Tactics book.
How To Approach A Girl #3, "The Birthday Gift": Notice an interesting detail of her appearance -- such as her handbag, necklace, earrings, dress, etc. Then say to her, "Excuse me, I really like that (fill in the blank). I need to buy a birthday gift for a friend of mine and I think she'd love something like that...where's a good place for me to go shopping?"
This opener is successful because you're talking about a subject that women naturally want to talk about. Think about it: do you know any women who don't like talking about the best places to go shopping? Plus, by mentioning that you need to buy a birthday gift for a friend, you're implying that you're thoughtful and generous -- exactly the kind of boyfriend that women are looking for.
Here is another tactic to use: If you find yourself struggling to identify "interesting details" about most women that you can use to comment on, this is an exercise that will help. Have a seat outside a coffee shop or cafe and spend 30 minutes observing the women walking past, and noticing details about them. Try to detect an interesting detail about every one of them. It becomes a lot easier to pick up on these subtle details once you've trained your eye to look for them. Every woman has something about her that you can use to comment on and open a conversation.
Those were just a few techniques for approaching women. The key to learning how to approach women is to get out there and start practicing! Don't worry about rejection, just keep improving and before long approaching women will be a fun part of your daily routine.
Friday, April 23, 2010
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