Friday, April 23, 2010

I Dont Want Him Anymore - Am I Moving On Too Quickly

Im constantly asked, what can I do after break up despite the fact that Im infatuated by ex boyfriend? My reaction has always been this, what do you wish to do? I understand that this is not the answer youve hoped for but its bizarre that a man you used to sleep with, the one you sacrificed your life, turns out hurting you the most. As they say, It is unthinkable to love and be wise you must pay for it.

You have no problem to say love is pain when you are not in pain but when you are in a relationship with an individual who doesnt have feelings for you its like been treated like nothing. Can you imagine all that caressing... may be those Callas flowers... all that I love you... those chocolates and romance, is now vanished, thats hard isnt it?

How do you act in this condition?

Phoning your ex man is not the best advice. Calling for sympathy to go back is even tougher. What important thing to do? First you have to learn that love is only a state of mind, its the way you look your partner. When you change that notion, there is no attraction. Do you read? Let me make it plain to you now.

Just recall this, before you got involve with his life, you had no feelings or any bond with him. Even if I were to give all details about him it wouldnt stimulate you the way you feel now. Do you understand why? Because as you are crazy about someone, you establish emotional response, which is anabled, in your neuro system. The more you stay together in a touchy-feely way, the more you hardwire the attraction in your brain which causes you to build more attraction (love).

Hence, when you break up with an ex boyfriend there is a reinforced heighten devotion that makes you feel overwhelmed. If you cant get him back then this is a death threat struggle. You may account why you cant get your sense smoothly or why you get self-conscious about your appearance because of stress caused by breakup break up. This impacts how you do actions and your over all manner. A simple way to solve this is to change how you treat these energies. You must change how you feel about him.

Ill put it in plain English...

Pick up a book you can acquire around, carry it while seeing the front cover then move it some and then observe it from different directions . You will notice that, its appearance changes depending on which side you are seeing it. The book didnt change but the the angle you look at it, changed. Now, Im not trying to compare your ex boyfriend with the book. What I mean here is this, when you change the how you feel about your ex boyfriend, breakup will not impacts you. Its likely you have a numerous questions of how to follow up on this? The good news is there is a trick to assist you forget your ex boyfriend fast. This technology will make you cope with break up completely, you will be better off than you can anticipate.

1 comment:

  1. i like ur post, but my relatioship not as good as i hoped.

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